We all want to be someone, belong to something, have some purpose. We hunger to know our place and draw comfort from knowing our identity. Sometimes we go through seasons where we don’t know our place or our purpose, though. I frequently struggle with the “why God” and “when God” and “where do you want me God” questions.
Friday I was at an all-day business meeting for work. Our leadership team was wrestling through some really big issues, issues that would impact the direction of the company for years and years to come. Everyone came to the table with ideas and suggestions. We were all excited for a resolution and a clear direction in which to move forward. You could literally feel the energy in the room!
Our implementer kicked off the meeting by asking everyone for their suggestions and input on a specific topic. We went around the table and everyone’s ideas were written down on the whiteboard. What a massive and broad list!! Then we started the process of combining ideas, or eliminating some. Then again, and again. Everyone had strong feelings about one idea or another. Passionate debates ensued. Then more debates, and more. People started to grow weary of the process and just wanted to jump to the meat, the conclusion, the purpose.
That’s when it hit me: it’s more about the process than the purpose.
The process of wrestling through the issues made the final result so much more meaningful. The process of passionately debating made us a stronger leadership team. The process of God working in my life through divorce has made more of an impact than had there not been a struggle. The process of God working in my life through the car wreck has made more of an impact than if there had not been pain.
The process is what makes us grow. The process is what makes us appreciate the purpose. Don’t miss the beauty of the process because you are too hungry for the purpose at the end.
Romans 5:3-5 – Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.
Romans 8:17-18 – Now if we are children, then we are heirs – heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory. I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.
James 1:2-4 – Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
Philippians 1:6 – And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.